Organization is essential for being a successful Sugar Baby. While a Sugar Daddy may know, intellectually, that he’s probably not the only man you’re in contact with, it would be a serious mistake to use the wrong name, an incorrect business or interest reference, or reference something from the wrong conversation thread. One of the best ways to go about this is to use a spreadsheet program, like Excel, Google Sheets, or a note taking app like Evernote.
You’ll want to list each Sugar Daddy by name and then include pertinent details like age, physical features, business or industry, income, which sugar dating site he uses, his username, and miscellaneous information that helps you remember his personality. This, also, helps you weed out bad Sugar Daddies, and it doesn’t hurt to keep a list of these, too. As you get further along, you’ll want to take notes on meetings and dates and how they went.
Before you find your Sugar Daddy you often have to meet with many candidates. In search of a new suitor, when you are in-between daddies, you may often go to several drink dates a night. Of course, you’ll make things much easier if you keep organized and keep track of all your dates and your busy dating schedule.
A calendar app is another must have for a young Sugar Baby. You should immediately log the time and date of any meetings in your phone’s calendar app when you decide to meet a new potential Sugar Daddy. When scheduling multiple dates or meetups in a night, try to create a very organized system. This will really come in handy when you need to remember details about every man you have to meet. Your system may work like this: get your date scheduled under a red label if the man and you haven’t gotten down to specifics but decide on a general night to grab a drink. If you haven’t nailed down the details but you’ve started talking about specifics, then log this date under a yellow label. And, finally, if every last detail has been confirmed, schedule the date with a green label. Using a color coded system will let you know at a glance what you have scheduled and for when.
If you organize your schedule this way, you will be able to tell quickly and easily where you stand with all your potential candidates to become your Sugar Daddy. For instance, if a very promising rich, older man can only meet you to grab a drink on a night where you are already scheduled to meet with some other red-label potential candidate, you know that you can safely reschedule with almost no hard feelings about it.
Also, if a potential date is red or yellow on the day of or day before your date, then it might be a good idea to send him a text saying that you would be excited to meet them tomorrow. This casual line can be used to let him know you both plan on meeting and look forward to it. Sending this text reduces your chance of getting stood up by giving the man the opportunity to either reschedule or confirm. It subtly lets him know you’re thinking of him and intend to follow through on the date, too.
When you and your rich, older man have a connection on a dating site, you may want to move the conversation to email or text. If this is the case, then it is recommended to record, as soon as possible, all of his contact information into your database and onto your phone. It is important to have on hand all this information, for when you need to contact him or when he calls you, so that you know who he is.
When you strive to stay organized as a Sugar Baby new to the lifestyle, eventually you will find a system that is most suitable for you. Don’t be afraid to try different methods to find what works the best and most naturally for you. Regardless of the method used, keep in mind that the information logged should help you to remember how to find his profile on the dating site and who he is. Find what works best for you as a method to refresh your memory and keep track of everything.
When you log a new potential Sugar Daddy for you, you’ll usually need to include his location, real name, screen name, physical features, age, interests, as well as, income/ lifestyle budget. For those candidates who really stand out, you may also include some interesting quotes from his profile that you may comment on during our first date. It may seem like a lot of information, but when you’re comparing multiple potential Sugar Daddies it may come down small details that help you make the decision.
As you go on multiple dates and learn more about each possible Sugar Daddy, you’ll want to update your records with new information. For example, your opinion of a particular man may change, so you should change where he is ranked on your list as you get to know him.
As you get to know him better, keep updating your Sugar Daddy’s information and don’t ever delete his text or information. Even if you stop dating, the Sugar Daddy may come back again. It will be easier to remember him if you have the history to look back on. You might even meet other Sugar Babies and can compare notes on who to avoid.
Before going on any dates, you should review the information that you’ve collected about the specific gentleman you are seeing that day or night. It’s important that you are able to act like he’s the only one that you are interested in, even if there are other candidates that you are still considering. Before too long, you’ll have found the right match for you or maybe more than one, if you don’t have an exclusive arrangement with one in particular.