Everything in life comes with pros and cons. The same goes, of course, for sharing your Sugar Daddy among other Sugar Babies. Being one of many seems, at the first sight, as a less than ideal situation. But, in a way, you can see a positive side to this situation, because the focus isn’t all on you. This makes room for you to pursue other hobbies and interests in life as well. But, on the other side, you can also see this as a challenge, because you compete for his affection with other women.
You need to ensure that you are the front and center, if you want to stay one step ahead of the game. You should find ways to stand out with your Sugar Daddy as a Sugar Baby. Once you learned how to do this, you can achieve being the One instead of being one of many. Here are some tips that might help you achieving this goal:
A Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationship is a give-and-take type of relationship. You have to monitor and evaluate yourself in order to ensure being that you are being a good communicator. You want to be a good listener, in addition, to being a fine storyteller. Maybe you’ve heard before of the “80/20 rule”. You might want to follow this rule, since most people enjoy being the center of attention. This means that you talk just 20 percent of the time, while you allow your Sugar Daddy to talk 80 percent of the time. By learning to turn to conversation back to him frequently, but naturally, you’ll show that you are interested in what he has to say.
Many men enjoy captivating their audience. However, try to stay positive, in case that you feel that your Sugar Daddy truly wants to hear your thoughts. Listening to a Sugar Baby complaining about societal ills and daily stresses can be a real turn off. Compared to your counterparts, being upbeat and charming can give you an advantage. When you do talk, make sure that what you have to say has substance to it and that you aren’t speaking just to fill the silence.
Do not worry about finding conversation topics. Just having a vague knowledge of human interest stories and world events can, usually, provide you a good start. It may also be useful to share some common interests. The relationship can strengthen when you are bonding over mutual fascinations.
Being comfortable in your own skin, is the most important thing for a Sugar Baby to do when meeting with her Sugar Daddy. It is up to you how you achieved that. For instance, if you feel more feminine when wearing a dress, do just that. But if you are most at ease in a casual attire, then let your personality shine through while you dress down. In case you are a style chameleon, then it is recommended to dress yourself in a way that stands out from your other Sugar Babies. Try something different than your competitors, something like a flirty, flowing dress, if they wear body-con dresses. Flaunt some leg and be covered up on top, if your competitors opt for plunging necklines. If they follow the fashion trends then choose being classically elegant. Trying to offer something different is the key.
Before getting all routine and boring, there are only so many dates that a Sugar Daddy can go on. Keeping this in mind, it seems to be wise making these dates memorable. It is smart to take a break from the usual dinner and dancing or cocktails and dinner date stereotypes, if you want to introduce some variety and avoid falling into a routine. Give your Sugar Daddy a memorable experience when going on a date. For instance, try a beer making seminar or a new ethnic restaurant. A good Sugar Baby should think about his interests and research ways to incorporate them into your dates. If he likes golf, maybe you could try going to a place like Top Golf, which is a fun multilevel driving range with various games. If he likes music, perhaps, you could find a jazz cafe.
How often you communicate with each other is a question that is up to you and your Sugar Daddy. Maybe your Sugar Daddy prefers daily communication. Or maybe he is the type who believes absence makes the heart grow fonder. No matter his style, it is essential that the way you communicate with him stands out. Most Sugar Babies attempt to entice their Sugar Daddies with texts or e-mails including X-rated pictures. However, in contrast, you have to ensure that you do something different. Send a picture of one part of your body, if you think the other Sugar Babies are sharing full body nude photos. Another fun thing to do with pictures is to do a boudoir photo shoot for your Sugar Daddy. You could include a mix of outfits and finishing touches like black and white photos, sepia, or enhanced photos that bring out a particular color. Just make sure you don’t send the whole collection all at once. Instead, you should send them to your wealthy older man one at a time or in batches of one outfit. And then wear the outfit for him. Later, introduce the next batch with another outfit to show off. Make sure they are new outfits, but you can use a favorite outfit for a couple pictures, too.
Set yourself apart by sending over email a new article that may interest your Sugar Daddy. You may also try a classic handwritten letter. Whether is a simple greeting card or a “thank you” note, this will be certainly most appreciated. By choosing to use something that is more unconventional by today’s standards, you’ll set yourself apart from the others. In addition, by sending a physical card or letter, you give him something to hold onto and see, maybe on his desk, and not just another email that gets deleted or mixed in with a plethora of other business and personal minutia. An old, old trick is to spray the pages with your perfume to invoke a sense memory in his mind.